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It's Only the End if You Want it to Be

Posts tagged mary margaret blanchard

Aug 28 '14
Aug 24 '14
Aug 11 '14

OUAT Quotes

(Source: jules-braddock)

Jul 9 '14

Snow White Appreciation Week

Day 2 - Favorite scene

Jul 6 '14

"I don’t feel like a hero or a saviour. I just feel like what I’ve always been: an orphan.

"…you were an orphan. It’s my job to change that.”

(Source: swanshope)

Mar 24 '14
Apr 8 '13


She missed 28 years with Emma that she’s never getting back. 28 years that her baby was alone, orphaned, abused, unloved and felt entirely abandoned. 

I don’t think this is a “dark and evil” punch. I do understand her feeling bad about it since he was in the middle of apologizing. But if he’d been trying to justify that decision to leave a baby that was savior of their entire world, in the hands of a 7 year old, bleh.

I think we’re supposed to see it as a sign of Snow “turning dark” or whatever, but I completely agree. She missed being able to raise her child. She missed being able to protect Emma from all the things that hurt her in those years. Of course she’s gonna be angry about that.

It might not be laudable to hit Gepetto, but it was a human reaction. And the thing is, there is a huge difference between being “dark” or “evil”, and momentarily lashing out at someone. HUGE. When fantasy loses that nuance and creates the expectation that being heroic means smiling politely and turning the other cheek when other people hurt you, it oversimplifies what it means to be “Good”, IMO.

(Source: tittianamaslany)

Mar 25 '13


Damn right she goes out alone in the middle of the damn forest to shoot her damn arrows and listen to her damn rock music to relieve her damn tension because she is Snow Damn White damnit.


This pretty much immediately became my favorite scene, if you guys can’t tell. xD

I’ve come to the conclusion that Mary Margaret is basically exactly what I would be like if I were like 500x cooler than I actually am.

Y’know, and a fairytale character.

May 13 '12

I have no idea where that came from

One of my new favorite mother/daughter duos. What could be more fabulous than Mary Margaret defending her daughter like the tough and awesome lady that she is?

(Tonight’s episode was also a WONDERFUL tribute to the mother-child bond, but I’m not going to post spoilers for now.)

(Source: ainokiseki)

May 8 '12


Talk about a motherly lecture.

^ Exactly! She really sounded like a mom here. I love it.

I also love how MM is starting to regain the strength and sassiness she had in the fairytale world. This is the third time she’s told someone off (the first two being David and Regina) and it was totally deserved and on-target (and awesome) in each case. AND she full-on kicked Jefferson out a window. HECK YES, MARY MARGARET. You go girl! It’s nice to see the ‘Real You’ shining through.

On that note, how completely AMAZING was Snow in this entire episode? She’s been hardcore all along, but WOW. Epic awesomeness.

Mar 18 '12


Okay, can we talk about how well this was done? Sometimes this show is all over the place when it comes to trying to strike a parallel between Storybrooke and FTL, but this ep, and Josh in particular got it ~down. The way he is so unflinchingly true in his faith in Snow even when she’s fannying around with a bow and arrow chatting shit about killing the Queen, but then he has a few seconds of hypnosis as David and he falters. The curse has broken him THAT MUCH.

I know they’ve been trying to do this all along with the whole affair thing, but they wore that out and it was much harder to sympathise with because it made David look more like a hypcritical idiot who wanted to have his cake and eat Mary Margaret than a man in a sort of crisis of faith who keeps losing sight of the qualities that made him ~Charming.

Basically, well done show. You made me actively invested in their struggle this episode. DON’T RUIN IT.

^ This, SO MUCH this. So very often, I get what this show is trying to do, but they miss the mark and it comes off as contrived, or like they’re trying to tell us who to root for instead of making us root for them. But it this episode they NAILED it, absolutely spot-on. Both the flashback and the real-world storylines were powerful and compelling (too often the story is lacking in one or the other) and they really showed how both David and Mary Margaret have changed.

And this scene… oh, my gosh. THIS SCENE. Mary Margaret, YOU GO GIRL. I have been waiting ALL along for MM to show the kind of backbone and defiance that Snow had in the fairytale world, and she FINALLY stood up for herself here, and it was glorious. I guess it’s true that going through a crisis brings out the strength in everyone, because Mary Margaret was never stronger or more compelling than she was in this episode, and seeing her tell off David was just the cherry on the cake. Not that I don’t understand that the curse is at play here, but he soooo deserved everything she said. If he really thinks she’d be capable of that kind of evil, then he does NOT love her.

SUCH a good episode!!!

Mar 11 '12

Well, darn it, Once Upon a Time…

… You actually come up with a couple I could get behind shipping, and you kill off one-half of that couple in the same episode? OUCH.

On the plus side, this week’s episode was a BIG step up from last week’s, which I found pointless and saccharine. This one felt much less silly, fleshed out Red’s character nicely, had nice friendship moments between Snow/MM, Red/Ruby, and Emma as well as a truly sweet development of the relationship between Ruby and her grandmother, and had several genuinely surprising twists there at the end. Nicely done, writers. And it looks like the next episode is going to be a goodie as well.

I just wish this show would do better when it comes to the romance. So many of their couples seem to be “one-episode wonders”, and while that might work for some people, I can’t find myself rooting for a couple unless I see a more realistic build-up of the relationship. It’s like these writers think they can just TELL us that couples are in love, and feel no obligation to actually show (or even imply) love growing over time. Red and Peter were a step in the right direction since the show at least bothered to establish that they’d been friends for a long time before falling in love. (To clarify, I don’t need couples to have known each other for years before falling in love or anything - all I’m asking for is some genuine build-up, here.)

To end this mini-review on a more positive note, though, this episode also did a LOT to rehabilitate David’s character in my eyes. I’d been pretty much hating him for the last few episodes, but his reaction to Kathryn’s death was genuinely moving (nice acting, Josh Dallas!) and then him immediately telling Emma to arrest him showed the kind of nobility and honor that this character has been severely lacking outside of the fairytale realm. Since David is clearly meant to be the show’s leading man, I’m thrilled to be able to root for him again.

Feb 20 '12


Who does he think you are?

I’m not in the book.

this scene still remains as one of the first ones who made me squee so damn hard! I’ll never get used to Emma’s face GAHHHH lol

I love this scene so much! Even though Emma KNOWS the idea is ridiculous, and MM can’t be her mom (according to real-world logic), she can’t help but feel something.

Jan 23 '12


 #she’s just holding on to him like ‘never let me go’ #cause she knows this is the last time #and then she’ll break his heart to save him #but for one last moment she just needs to hold him 

Okay, so I know I just wrote a long rant about my issues with Snow and Charming’s relationship, but…

… this moment was legitimately heartbreaking and adorable at the same time, okay?

That’s not to say it wouldn’t have mean a heck of a lot more if I had been genuinely convinced of their love, but cute is cute, and good acting is good acting, and Ginnifer and Josh sold it.

Let it never be said that I don’t give credit where credit is due. I mean, darn it, I want to like these two! They have a ton of potential. I just need to see more build-up and less Because Destiny Says So, and we’ll be all good.

(Source: ginnifergoodwins)

Jan 23 '12

Thoughts on Snow and Charming (SPOILERS FOR THE 1/22 EPISODE OF OUAT)

(NOTE: This post contains spoilers for Season 1, Episode 10 of Once Upon a Time. Stay away if you have not yet watched this episode and don’t want to be spoiled.)

Right then. Let’s get started.

Tonight’s episode focused a lot on the Mary/David, Snow/Charming relationship. This isn’t surprising. Snow and Charming are basically the show’s Official Couple as of now. And up until tonight’s episode, I had been quite liking their relationship. Sure, I didn’t like David constantly waffling back and forth between Mary and his wife, but considering the situation he’s in, I was willing to make allowances. And he hadn’t actually cheated, which made it easier to excuse. Plus, their interactions were utterly adorable, especially in the fairytale world.

Tonight’s episode changed how I felt about them. A lot.

First, let’s address what we found out about the Snow/Charming side of the relationship.

Tonight’s fairytale flashback starts off with Snow unable to get Charming out of her mind, despite the fact that his wedding is approaching. She is so desperate to be “cured” of her love that she seeks out Rumpelstiltskin and makes a deal with him (never a good idea, and Snow is a smart enough gal to know that). Meanwhile, back at the ranch, Charming can’t stop thinking about Snow either, so he sends her a note, telling her that he loves her, and if she feels the same way, she should come meet him and they will run away together. And sure enough, Snow sets off.

Essentially, he just proposed marriage. Not only that, Charming knows the trouble he can cause for both the kingdom and his mother by running off with Snow. He’s taking a huge leap here, but that’s (supposedly) fine because it’s in the name of “true love”. Both Snow and Charming, in fact, use the word “love”, and the amount that they’re willing to risk to be together clearly shows that they believe it’s the real deal, and the audience is supposed to believe it too.

The only problem? They’ve met each other all of exactly once at this point.

I know, I know. Love at first sight is hardly unheard of in fairy tales. Love at first sight is, in fact, what happened between Snow and Charming in the original fairy tale. But, let’s face it, OUAT hasn’t exactly felt compelled to stick precisely to the original stories. And that’s a good thing - we all know the basic forms of these fairy tales. The fun comes with the unexpected twists and original interpretations. But in addition to adding interesting twists, some of the changes the show has made have very been clearly been done so as to make the story more appealing and accessible to a modern audience - making Snow a much stronger, less passive heroine, for example. While I can hardly speak for modern civilization as a whole, for my part, one of the changes I would have wanted them to make in that vein is establishing a connection between Snow and Charming based on the two truly getting to know each other and falling in love over time, rather than falling in love based on one meeting alone.

The show’s decision to do otherwise is especially baffling considering that they specifically altered the original story by having Snow White and Prince Charming know each other before the scene where he wakes her up from the poisoned sleep. When I saw the first episode, this was one of the things I liked the most, as I thought it meant that the show meant to establish a genuinely deep and meaningful relationship between Snow and Charming, as opposed to falling back on the tired old “love at first sight” cliche. Yet here we are ten episodes later, and we find out that they supposedly fell in love after meeting only once after all. I find this unrealistic, and frankly disappointing. To me, love is about truly knowing the other person, inside and out. It’s about knowing their good sides, their bad sides, and the little things that make them unique. It’s about being able to trust the other person completely, to confide in them, to support them and get support back. Snow and Charming had not known each other long enough to have that.To be sure, their first meeting had laid a strong foundation. They had learned important things about each other, found themselves able to trust each other and be honest with each other, and worked together as a team. They might well have started to fall in love, but the process was just beginning. They hadn’t yet formed a real relationship. One meeting, no matter how much it affected them, is simply not enough for me to find the supposedly deep and powerful love between them believable.

Now, on to the Mary/David side of things.

First of all: I hear a lot of people saying that it isn’t really cheating because Snow and Charming were married in the fairytale world, and David isn’t really married to Kathryn. This is invalid, IMO. I judge people’s actions based on the information that they have or don’t have. David thinks he is married to Kathryn. Mary thinks he is married to Kathryn. Kathryn thinks he is married to her, and will be genuinely hurt and betrayed if she finds out about his affair. Furthermore, David chose to go back to Kathryn. He could have separated from her (if not actually divorced her) until he figured things out, but instead he chose to go back to her, and promised to try and make things work. That promise was not something he was forced into or a circumstance beyond his control. It is a choice that he made of his own free will, and, as such, he is obligated to honor that commitment to Kathryn. If all the relevant parties think that David and Kathryn are married, and David and Kathryn have promised to be committed to each other and try to make things work as a couple, then, for all intents and purposes, they are married. Legalities aside, it’s cheating, plain and simple.

There’s also the fact that, as in the fairytale world, Mary and David are claiming to be in love despite the fact that they barely know each other. This is somewhat more excusable since they subconsciously remember the relationship they had in the fairytale world and what they meant to each other, but for the most part, it once again feels like the show is simply trying to tell us that these two people are deeply in love, without taking the time to establish a genuinely meaningful relationship between them.

Possibly the most aggravating aspect for me, though, was Mary and David acting as though the two of them having an affair would be fine (or at least less wrong) as long as David’s wife wasn’t pregnant. Uh… what? Since when is adultery okay as long as your spouse isn’t pregnant? I get that the thinking was that if Kathryn was pregnant, it would be that much harder for David to leave her for MM, but the fact remains that either way, David hasn’t left her, and he doesn’t seem to really show any signs that he intends to leave her. Instead, he reassures her that he’s committed to her and intends to make their marriage work whenever she questions him. And then he goes and pines after Mary Margaret, and tells her about how he has all these feeeeeelings for her, and tries to kiss her. This is monumentally unfair to both women, although of course Mary does her part in this tango too. In any case, if David intends to explore his feelings for Mary Margaret, then he’s obligated to do the honorable thing and leave Kathryn first. And if he isn’t going to leave Kathryn, then he and Mary Margaret have to keep their hands off each other and let it go. It’s as simple as that.

Bottom line: I get it. David and Mary Margaret are Snow White and Prince Charming. They’re soulmates. They’re destined to be together. I get it, I really do. But this is quickly turning into a case of Strangled by the Red String. You can’t just tell me that they’re meant for each other, and expect that to be enough. You have to make me believe it. You have to make me want them to be together. Ginnifer and Josh’s chemistry and acting talent helps in that regard, but it’s not enough. You have to establish an actual relationship between the two of them, you have to create a genuinely deep bond, not just try to convince me that such a bond already exists between two people who barely know each other. Show, don’t tell.